Saturday, November 8, 2008

Prisoners of War…Almost

11-8-2008

Tim: Yes, we can indeed ship to the orphanage. Mercy For Children is arranging their first container containing clothes, tools, supplies, and a vehicle. Anything you would like to donate would be welcome.

Bob P: Good to see you on the blog…just wanted to say hi.

Today was a good day as we woke up to electricity. In fact, right when my feet hit the floor, it came back on, which means we can have toast for breakfast!! Unfortunately we came home to no power which means that we won’t have a fan for going to sleep; not for the noise in order to drown out the music that people like to play into the wee hours of the morning, but for the movement of the stale, humid, hot air on our perspiring bodies. Oh well…at least we had toast.

We arrived at the orphanage expecting the usual mob of children running out to greet us, but today…nothing! It was a ghost town and Zach started whistling the famous Wild West whistle (can’t think of the movie) expecting to see a tumbleweed roll through. We hunted for the kids and discovered that it was bath time and everyone had gone down to the river for their bath. It seems strange that while the new bathrooms have showers, the children and staff still elect to go to the river to bathe. It’s probably more fun that way, but for health reasons, we should attempt to get them to take their last bath of the day in the shower.



Progress is moving along on the building, but we’re a little behind schedule. The concern is really the wiring as we’re missing some supplies needed to complete it. 2 rooms have tested out fine and hopefully we can get it close enough for the locals to follow some simple directions to completion.

Ashton slept most of the day as he has not been feeling well. Hopefully he’ll do a little better tomorrow as his “team” is waiting to play. This is a pic, right after he woke up, with his guys.


We had a staff meeting with all of the orphanage workers to try and bridge the gap and uncerstand the concerns that they have in caring for the kids. Yvonne (the caretaker/teacher) said the most beautiful thing. She said, “Your visit here has taught us many things. It is like the brightest light making everything clear.” She pledged to be praying for us as we travel back home. Perhaps our example has caused them to think about the possibilities of what could be.

(Paul filming Bati)

We also discussed that this orphanage is going to be a place of international gatherings and that each culture would have to learn from the other. One example is the trash; although trash here in the congo is simply disposed of outside the door, culturally speaking we feel that most Americans would see this as the locals not taking pride in their orphanage. While this isn’t the case, we probably can’t afford the “bad press” and have elected to have them dispose of the trash in a mini-landfill.

We also asked the staff for their needs. With 52 children, the one cook, the one laundry lady, and the two care takers are feeling the strain. It’s no wonder that the clothes the children wear are dirty when you have 52 kids playing in the dirt all day and then 1 woman to wash the clothes by hand. While it would be simple enough to send them a washing machine, there is no way to plug it in. We going to need to bump up the staff.

Making sure the staff is well taken care of is also our concern. How could they possibly have the energy to attend to the individual needs of the kids if they themselves are worn out? We’ve got to get this place running more like a well oiled machine, but we’re still in the early stages.

It’s interesting to note that I’ve seen 6 Albino Africans while I’ve been here. I probably pass that many in the U.S. in the course of a week, but they don’t quite stand out the way that they do here. One guy grabbed an albino as he was walking by our parked Landcruiser, and shouted that “Look! You are the same.” Funny.
(A fun dancing game we played with the kids)
Today we were stopped at a traffic stop. The two military guys demanded the car registration and the driver’s license then ordered us to pull over. Gabi got out of the car and walked back to them to discuss what was wrong. Panic started to come over a few of us as Paul used his phone to get a fix on our GPS coordinates and readied to call the Embassy’s hotline. Doug pulled out his hidden fanny pack and started to shove his money into in case they rifled through our stuff. We stowed our memory cards in case they took the cameras, and then sat poised, ready for any contingency.

Turns out they were traffic cops and claimed that it was illegal to have our cooler on the front seat. Hmmmm, in a country where we have seen people riding on the outside of the car at 50mph or riding on the roof – literally the roof, this seemed ridiculous. The 2 officers held their ground, but claimed that the whole mess could go away if we paid them a little money - therein lies the rub. Gabi told the two that they were nuts and to give him a ticket and he would fight it in court. Eventually, they let him go and we went on our way – a little sleepy from the adrenaline rush we had just been through. Situations seem so much larger when you don’t understand the language and only here the shouting. I think Zach soiled himself. :-)

9 comments:

MOMS said...

So far it sounds like another exciting day there in the Congo. You should all have taken a bath with the kids, you probably could use one. I think more than Zack might have "soiled" themselves. I guess there are some bad cops everywhere that are on the take,it seems someplaces more than others. The picture of the dancing looked like fun. If grandma Dar and I were there we could teach them "Zumba" .It seems you are getting things done even if it takes a little longer. Your right about the staff, they definately need more help. Ash, I hope you are feeling better. Chrish, are you picking up the slack while Ash sleeps? Have you been playing soccer with your homies as well? Min,Livy have you been doing crafts and making jewelry with the kids? Are they teaching you any new things to make? I haven't heard to much about that. How many Girls, Boys are there anyway? Well I guess you are getting things ready to return home, a long trip to go yet. We are so looking forward to seeing you all! So many hugs and kissed to give you, I love you, gramma/moms

Anonymous said...

I think its time for Rosetta Stone, so you can understand the bad guys when they are trying to shake you down.But then again if you talk laud enough you may not need it (right Doug)? Livy and Rin I'll bet theirs a little girl at the orphanage who know how to braid hair, if so you may want to ask her to braid yours? it would be a good experience for all. OK is Ash feeling better to play soccer?. Chrish, are the books their written in Afriganien? ha ha. Zack, look at it this way, the river where all the people go to take a bath (it looks brown) must be the same river they wash their cloths after they have gone threw a check point up river. Love you all and make sure you all clean you soiled pants before you come home. Can't wait to see you (in clean pants). Dad S

kaylene said...

Hey Guys,
We finally had our whole family together yesterday afternoon.. Brad has been on a trip. I had been waiting to get everyone together so we could start from the beginning and read the whole blog.I've read bits and pieces to Bran and Blair but hadn't been able to start from the beginning. We went down to the dock and read the whole thing. You had us laughing and in tears. We can't tell you how proud we are of all of you. We then each said a prayer for you and your new kids. We are praying for your courage and health and for ways that we can be able to help this incredible mission. We love you and are praying for your safe trip home.
Doug, Kaylene and 3 B's

momp said...

What an experience...I was holding my breath as I read it all after looking at the title! I agree with Dad S. on the Rosetta Stone - maybe we should start now! Hope you are better Ash. Love all the pics. Tears came to my eyes over the comments about you shedding light & the difference you are making there. So much in such a short time with more to do & clearly the staff needs help. Looking forward to hearing the plans for the next trip. It will be wonderful to have you home..you are all missed! Be safe & love U,momp

Anonymous said...

Correction, it should have said "if you talk out LOUD" Doug

I read you last blog and saw Paul's picture---I thought Shantel stopped cutting hair. Love You Paul. Dad S

SuperDorde said...

When we were in Nigeria we passed military checkpoints all the time. For 2 weeks we never got stopped. On the last day to the airport at the last checkpoint (it's as if they know you're on a time crunch) we got pulled over.

They grabbed our driver (Iboro) and started yelling at him because he didn't have his drivers liscence. (not even sure he had one). An officer jumped into the car, with the 3 of us in it and started driving away with us (yes, we were FREAKING out!) But he simply moved the car to the other side of the road a 100 feet down. (still don't know why) (probably a scare tactic).

We felt helpless as we didn't know what was going to happen. It really sucks and really makes you turn to God. (something we should be doing all the time anyways).

After what seemed an hour (probably 15 min) Iboro said that they wanted to fine him, but he thought that they would take a 10 dollar bribe. We did it. Hated doing it, but in Nigeria it's just a way of life there. The corruption is sooo deep.

It's crazy what we take for granted here.

You guys are going through a ton and in some ways are really getting used to a lot of things that shocked you 2 weeks ago. It will be hard for you to integrate back into our "civilized" society. Please call me anytime if you need to talk when you get back. My email is: gsreckov@gmail.com and my cell is 715-379-7169.

I'm actually in Orlando tonight. I fly home tomorrow. Mother Spinella got a hold of me (thank you) and hopefully our game of phone tag will turn out productive.

Have a great trip home if I don't get a chance to write again.

Love you guys. You've inspired me in all you've done. :)

Big Sis said...

We are anxiously awaiting your arrival home! How wonderful it will be to sleep in your own bed and take a warm shower! How sad it will be when you have to say goodbye to the wonderful children.
Mom and I decided that when you get back you will have to keep up the blog on your day-to-day adventures :-)
Hope Ashton is feeling better! He was just taking a day off of playing. Anything to get out of work :-) Do you think you could get Shantel to give Ash and Christian a hair cut while you are there?
Love you all and pray for you daily! Have a safe trip back!

Anonymous said...

Sounds Exciting,

While Zach was peeing his pants and you were hiding your memory cards, Mark Reams and I were judging pies at the Hillbilly Harvest at Forest Lake. We are truly worlds apart.

Only a few more days! We're looking forward to your return.

Paul, I got your text message this morning-- you'll have to tell me more later.

David

Grandpa Bob said...

You all have done a wonderful thing for the children, the orphanage workers and for the Lord. Remember, it is his work and He will make it happen thru you and others of His choosing. Continue to be safe during your remaining time there and return to us safe and sound.

Love you all,
Dad P (aka Grandpa Bob)

Paul: Don't forget to let me know your retun flights and times.